Miriam Adelson reveals Israel dominated years of daily calls between Sheldon Adelson and Lindsey Graham
GOP megadonor Miriam Adelson disclosed that her late husband Sheldon Adelson and the late Sen. Lindsey Graham spoke about Israel nearly every day for years, a relationship she honored in an emotional virtual tribute days after Graham's death.
Adelson delivered her remarks on July 21 during a virtual event hosted by the Israeli-American Council, two weeks after Graham died at 71 following what his office called "a brief and sudden illness." Preliminary findings from the District of Columbia medical examiner pointed to an aortic dissection tied to cardiovascular disease as the cause of death. The tribute, which also featured Republican Jewish Coalition chairman Norm Coleman, offered a window into a bond between one of the Republican Party's most generous donors and one of its most prominent senators, a bond built almost entirely around the U.S.-Israel relationship.
Miriam Adelson quoted Sheldon Adelson's longtime secretary, Betty, to describe how constant the contact was. As the Daily Caller reported:
"There was not a day that Sheldon talk with Lindsey. They talked about Israel. Lindsey gave him advice. Sheldon gave him advice, and they had fun."
That line, not a day without a call, and Israel was the subject, tells you where Graham's attention sat when the cameras were off. For a senator who chaired hearings, shaped foreign policy, and spent decades in Washington, the daily check-in with a casino magnate about a single allied nation is a striking detail. It says something about what Graham valued and who had his ear.
A friendship forged on an AIPAC trip three decades ago
Adelson traced the relationship back to roughly 1990, when she and Sheldon met Graham during an AIPAC-organized mission that flew freshman Republican congressmen to Israel. The Adelsons and two unnamed business partners bankrolled the trip and donated to AIPAC's educational arm, though the dollar amounts were not disclosed.
Adelson recalled her first impression of Graham with the specificity of someone who never forgot it. Jewish Insider reported her saying:
"As a physician, I love to see the brain, the eyes are our brain, and they were so pure and blue. You could see what he was thinking about. He was so honest, with integrity, and Sheldon and me fell in love with him."
That initial meeting led to a relationship spanning more than three decades, one that eventually carried real financial weight. Forbes reported that in July 2019, the Adelsons each contributed $500,000 to Security is Strength, a super PAC backing Graham's reelection. OpenSecrets put their combined giving to that same PAC at $1 million during the 2020 cycle.
Graham's death has already reshaped the political landscape in South Carolina, where President Trump urged Gov. McMaster to appoint Graham's sister as interim senator.
Graham skipped the VIP room to shake hands with tourists
Adelson shared one anecdote that painted Graham as indifferent to the perks that typically come with donor access. During a visit to the Adelsons' Las Vegas Sands property alongside the late Sen. John McCain, Graham bypassed the VIP room and went straight to the casino floor to greet tourists. It was a small moment, but Adelson used it to draw a larger portrait of a man she said was genuinely interested in people rather than status.
She described Graham's appeal in broad terms, per Jewish Insider:
"Lindsey loved people, and they loved him from the left, from the right. He was a fantastic person."
Graham was among the most visible Republican voices in the Senate for more than two decades, a figure who shaped GOP foreign policy positions and served as a close ally to multiple Republican presidents. His absence leaves a gap in the Senate's national-security wing at a moment when Senate Republican leadership is navigating internal divisions over spending and legislative priorities.
Adelson closed her tribute in tears, addressing Graham directly as a good man she missed. The video of her remarks was posted on X on July 24 by Chris Menahan of InfoLibNews.
Republican Jewish Coalition plans to name its first award after Graham
The tribute was not the only honor in the works. The Republican Jewish Coalition announced plans to present its first Lindsey Graham Statesman Award at its August summit in Las Vegas. The exact date of the summit and whether other nominees or recipients were under consideration were not disclosed.
Naming the award after Graham makes a specific statement about what the organization values: a senator who made Israel a daily priority, who built a personal relationship with the party's most generous pro-Israel donors, and who maintained that focus across administrations and shifting political winds. Those dynamics, donor relationships, foreign-policy alignment, and the machinery of Republican coalition politics, are the gears that keep the party running, whether or not they make for comfortable conversation.
Graham's role in those broader Senate Republican battles over spending and legislation was well established. He operated at the intersection of defense hawks, pro-Israel advocates, and Trump-aligned populists, a coalition that held together in part because Graham worked the phones as relentlessly as the Adelsons' account suggests.
The internal dynamics of the GOP continue to evolve without him. Vice President Vance has spoken candidly about the party's challenges in reaching new voters, a conversation Graham participated in for years from his own angle.
Whatever you thought of Lindsey Graham's politics, a daily phone call about the same ally for years on end is not casual friendship, it is commitment. Washington could use more of that kind of consistency, even if the beneficiaries of it deserve the same scrutiny as anyone else who has a senator's ear every morning.

