Tobey Maguire officiated ex-wife Jennifer Meyer’s Hawaii wedding to music executive Geoffrey Ogunlesi just weeks after their long-running divorce was finalized.

The Spider-Man star stood at the altar on Saturday as Meyer and Ogunlesi said “I do” at the Four Seasons Resort Lanai, NBC Los Angeles reported, citing People magazine photos and coverage of the ceremony.

The timing was hard to miss. Maguire and Meyer’s divorce was finalized on Sept. 21, nearly a decade after they separated, and he was already on hand to marry her to someone else.

Meyer, a jewelry designer, wore a white strapless gown. Ogunlesi, a music executive, wore a black suit and bow tie. The pair had welcomed a baby girl earlier this year, and the Hawaii guest list leaned heavily Hollywood: Leonardo DiCaprio, Courteney Cox, Kate Hudson, Jeff Bezos, and Lauren Sánchez Bezos.

Their own history stretched back almost twenty years. Meyer and Maguire married in 2007, separated in 2016, and only closed the legal file this September, a slow-motion split that fits a familiar celebrity pattern, including when Tobey Maguire and Jennifer Meyer reached an official divorce after years apart.

What stands out is not the venue or the famous friends. It is who held the microphone.

Kids came first after the breakup

Meyer has already described how she and Maguire handled the wreckage. Talking to People in May, she said the priority never drifted from their two children, Ruby, 19, and Otis, 17.

“When Tobey and I broke up, it was very clear immediately that Ruby and Otis came first, and we really cared about each other as people, and we wanted to be in each other's lives no matter what,” Meyer said.

"When Tobey and I broke up, it was very clear immediately that Ruby and Otis came first, and we really cared about each other as people, and we wanted to be in each other's lives no matter what," Meyer said. "And we didn't want to miss a Christmas. We didn't want to miss a Thanksgiving."

That is a basic standard, not a lifestyle brand. Parents who still share holidays after a split spare their kids the permanent civil war too many households treat as normal.

Other public breakups have been far messier and more expensive, from a South Korean divorce ruling with a $644 million payout to fortune fights that turn private failure into spectator sport.

Meyer’s version, at least as she tells it, put the children ahead of the grudge.

A blended family, then a quick walk down the aisle

By the time the divorce stamp landed in September, Meyer and Ogunlesi already had a baby girl. Weeks later, Maguire was officiating their wedding in Hawaii. Radio Fox News noted the same post-divorce twist in its celebrity roundup: the ex-husband as officiant.

Hollywood often sells chaos as authenticity. Here the sequence ran the other way, separation, a long legal lag, a new child, a finalized divorce, then a ceremony the former spouse helped complete.

Amicable does not mean cost-free. It does mean adults can refuse to turn every milestone into another round of score-settling, a contrast with flashpoints like Brittney Griner’s divorce filing after a very public marriage story.

Meyer’s May comments framed the point without spin. She and Maguire wanted to stay in each other’s lives “no matter what,” and they did not want the kids missing Christmas or Thanksgiving. Officiating the next wedding is the logical extreme of that promise.

Plenty of high-dollar splits still hinge on leverage and sealed paperwork, as with Chip Wilson’s reported divorce and the Lululemon fortune fight. This one, on the available record, hinged on showing up.

Family first is easy to preach and hard to practice once lawyers, pride, and new partners enter the room. Maguire practiced it in the most literal way left, by marrying his ex-wife to her new husband while their children remained the through-line.